Kal ho na ho!

Nice name! and a nice banner too...Kal ho na ho!Good message..thou was a copy of Anand...Shahrukh acted well...
Hey hey m not here promoting or criticizing Yash Raj movies or singing praises for Shahrukh ..(M not a fan of his!)...But here to express my view on the theme so rightly conveyed by both "Kal ho na ho" and "Anand". Who knows whether tomorrow would come and we would be alive to see it.So enjoy and live the moment, live for the day!
Particularly Anand, In which Rajesh Khanna , despite knowing of his death which is to come due to lymph-o-cer-coma...(I guess I got it right)...Lives for today..Spreads happiness around...Brings happiness in the life of his doc ...Amitabh ...U hardly find people so brave today in ths world..(Even I m not 1 of them , thou m writing a write up on the same)
I have seen many people worry about wht to do if this happens, wht do I do if that happens...
Say u write an exam ...And u start worrying, Darn, the paper was bad...wht if i get low marks...wont b able 2 make it to the so and so univ... sh*t my future gone...and they start sulkin.. without waiting for the university to release the results..(We all are aware of the university corrections...People get lucky .. :P)...Without realizing tht thinkin abt tommorow is actually ruining their present.
I have seen so many instances where there have been one sided affairs and actually seen people go insane if the partner doesnot agree to ur feelings or does not accept them.Recently a news stated where one guy fell for a gal and when she did not agree to his feelings or did not reciprocate, stabbed her multiple times and then tried killing himself. And people say he did this , cause he went to depression.What a justification! Why run after things which are never urs, why think abt them , ruin ur and life of people around u?
Also there is this case of a TCS gal being murdered, for no fault of hers, because some psycho went insane????Y???
Instead of thinking and cribbing, raving and ranting about things which are not bound to happen, instead of tormenting urself on wht may happen and wht may not happen...live for today , live for the moment.It may so happen that whtever u are pondering on , may turn out to be good...Who knws whether we may b alive to see something happen...You never know when life comes to an end.
The people who died in the Hiroshima-Nagasaki incident never knew they were gonna die this kind of a miserable death.The people who were struck by tsunami least expected it when they were on beaches with their loved ones on a vacation.
We always forget that there are so many beautiful things in life , there are so many beautiful reasons to live and to enjoy than to sulk over some stupid silly reason!
There are your loved ones, ur family, frens, who really care for u! To whom each smile and frown of urs matters..
We live a very mechanical life these days , where in we have very little time for ourselves and our loved ones...And there are so many tensions in life...Instead of thinking abt them, spoiling our mood and tht of our near and dears...forget them and live life to the fullest!
Live like a small kid...who jus smiles when a small butterfly flutters by it...which unaware of wht is bad wht is good...does wht it likes , eats sleeps lives happily...u never no when u would get another chance to do the same...
Giggle with ur frens... dance like there is no tommorrow.....sing like there is no one hearing u..(My frens tell me I have the worst voice any1 could ever have, but tht does not bother me!! ;) )
Plan for tommorow..Chill out with frens...Live life the fullest...Who ever knows if tommorow would come..
"Tommorow never comes...For when it comes...It is today...And live it king-size..."
For me queen size!... :)

An expression may leave an impression!

Some time back..One of my dear frens sent me a sms saying:
"Nature has given u the face,but u have to provide the expression...Be careful ..for your expression may leave an impression on someone"
How true and well said..Each gesture of yours leaves an imprint on the people around u..
Jus sometime back my boss comes and gives me a smile , and it feels nice...Jus a smile makes u feel that ..yes, u matter !
And yet people get so v stingy with just expressing what they have in their hearts!
Say what u have in your hearts , for tommorow probably you may not have the chance to say wht u always wanted to say ...
Tom that person may just depart, and u may be left with a feeling...Darn, had i told wht i wanted to say, things would have been different!
If u feel like appreciating some1, do it...for it would make a difference in that person's life...It does..
If you feel like jumping out and dancing, do it...Stop thinking abt wht the world has to say...The world keeps saying...irrespective of wht u do!

At times i come across this male frens of mine, who shy away from saying wht they could say and could make a difference to someone...and when asd the reason ...they defend saying that that is how men are...Well I dunno how true it is...but then guys! probably expressing your feelings is not all that bad! Say u appreciate someone or wish some1...u could actually end up being frens even with the bitterest of your enemies!

I know this post may make v little sense to people...
But then I would like to emphasise again...
"An expression may leave an impression".
So make the best use of it..

Wink at the kid next door, smile at the conductor, wish ur colleague...and realize the power of your expression...It may spin magic on some1... :)